More Resolutions

The list and brainstorm continues. Look at this list?!?!?!  Can you imagine if I do all of this stuff how amazing I will be and how awesome my life will be? What if I do 50%?  What if I do 25%?  Still pretty good and 2026 will be better than 2025.

  • Organize and clean-up my YouTube Channel:  I have one consistent viewer … my daughter. Currently my YouTube is a mix of family-friend videos.  Some Portfolio stuff (which should be a Playlist or Channel inside the Channel). Some performing stuff. Some … kinda old, embarrassing stuff that’s kinda for nothing (like my Push-Ups during the Push-Up challenge).  If I’m a “brand” unto myself and/or I want to be a thought-leader, I think my YouTube channel can be better if it wasn’t just a massive hodge podge.
  • Organize my Photos:  I have photos on an external hard drive. Some on my PC’s harddrive. Some still in DropBox and still others in Google Photos. No rhyme or reason. So, I’m going to figure out a rhyme and a reason.
  • Implement Walter Green’s “Say It Now” (video below) into my year: Maybe I’ll go with 26 people (for the year 2026). Or maybe I’ll go with 52 or 52 (because I’m 52-years-old and will be 53-years-old).

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Time to Start *Thinking About* New Year’s Resolutions

Some people poo poo the idea of New Years Resolutions and point to all sorts of data that says “New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work” and most people break their resolutions in less than a month. Well? I poo poo that. I love Resolutions. I love new beginnings. I love making improvements and adjustments. And if it happens to be January 1st that I turn a page and make a list and make myself some promises, I’m gonna do it (and you know I make resolutions often and not just once a year).

Over the years, *some* of my Resolutions have stuck . . .

  • Get on stage and perform at The Moth (I’ve done this 6 times and won once)
  • Floss daily (I never thought I’d be a flosser but I am)
  • Cold showers (silly, but I’ve done it)
  • Journal (not daily, but often)
  • Clean my bathroom every morning (this is surprisingly satisfying and cathartic)
  • Oatmeal for lunch (I can’t wait to see my cholesterol levels with next year’s annual physical)

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My 2025 Christmas Wish-List

Click here for my full Stuff I Want List but read below for the latest additions. 

For those new to my website and Blog, I have an ongoing wish-list for Father’s Day, my birthday, and Christmas. It’s not for me so much as it is for you. For my family, my friends, co-workers, and random admirers … it’s so they have an idea of what to give me as a gift if inspiration finds them.

My gift-getting has slowed recently. Probably my fault. I don’t hype-up and talk about my Stuff I Want List as much as I used to … well that’s gonna change. Also, maybe people are looking for new ideas. I get it. So here goes.

***NEW*** Mizzen+Main or Collars & Co. wrinkle-free dress shirts (white or blue only, Medium, relaxed or classic fit) …those are my favorite brands. Read More

Lawn Stuff: I Still Don’t Bag Leaves

Remember back in 2022 when I Blogged that I don’t bag leaves? Well, here we are 3 years later and my non-bagging mulch-the-leaves 100% techniqiue is better than ever.

I don’t bag leaves.

I live in a neighborhood with huge trees and if I bagged my leaves it would take me multiple weekends and 20 to 30 bags.

But I don’t bag leaves.

I mulch them. Right into the lawn. I clip down bushes and daylilies and tall grasses, spread them across my lawn, and then mulch those into my lawn, too. Read More

Breathing? Nope. I’m Mewing

Just when I think I’m out … they pull me back in. Technically, I think that’s called “inhaling” … as in “pulling in air” … breathing? Get it?

What I mean is … my lungs were cured 4 or 5 years ago and suddenly I’m obsessed with breathing again. Breathing better, that is. Because I’m convinced, now, that breathing can be improved.

I’m reading about how certain breathing techniques can give a person more energy than a cuppa coffee or an energy drink in the afternoon. Some breathing techniques can lower heart rate. Some can help a guy grow hair. Yes. Some people believe that so I say, why not? I’m not bald, but maybe I can thicken up my coif a tad with breathing techniques. 

I’m adding to my Lung Stuff. I guess I’m obsessed.

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Breathing Through My Nose

I think I’m a … I can’t believe I’m admitting this … I think I’m a mouth-breather.

Why didn’t anyone every tell me this!?!?!?!

Or maybe I’m a mouth-breather, but only sometimes.

In my weekly round-up (still trying to name that thing that’ll make me famous and get me thousands or readers) I talked about the book, Breath, all about breathing and I’m obsessed. With breathing.

The book starts by describing the evolution of humans and why our noses are all different. Fascinating. Then the book quickly gets to why we’re supposed to breathe through our noses. All those hair filters and heating and cooling and cleaning of the air and on and on and on. Read More

Friday of Firsts: Breathing, Amazon Music, and My Feet

Breathe by James Nestor: I can’t help it. I like self-help, how-to, and life-hacking books. But this one …whoa! I heard James Nestor on a Podcast talking about the science of breathing and breathing properly and so I picked up Breathe this week and can’t put it down. I’m learning I’m a mouth-breather (thank goodness I never made fun of people by calling them “mouth breathers” … because I am one). I’m quickly realizing I need some work – when I force myself to only breathe thru my nose, I kinda feel like I’m suffocating. I feel dehydrated all the time and wake up feeling dehydrated. Yep. Mouth breathing. I think I sleep wrong. This book is fascinating.

Amazon Music: I’m a Spotfiy guy. And I like music Apps like iHeartRadio, Audacy, and have all sorts of streaming station originals bookmarked. Spotify is my “CD collection”. The Apps are me letting other music-people pick my playlist. This week, speaking of “music people”, this guy I work with said, “hey, you might like this Playlist I made … it’s a playlist made up of only the single best song from every artist on the list. There’s 1,005 songs on the list.” I like the concept. I wonder how many arists I could actually have a strong enough opinion to pick their best song? What I learned is, Amazon Music is a little bit Spotify, and a little bit curated stations and because I’m a Prime member, I have it … and I didn’t even know it. I like the Amazon Music App and interface. Basically, just another tech toy but I like it. And I think the music quality is better, even though I know that’s not possible.

HBO Max Documentary: Yacht Rock: I don’t know that I’m a “music person”, but I guess I am. I’m also a “documentary person”. Yacht Rock is a great concept invented by a comedy troupe who made a 10-part comedy series years ago and “yacht rock” just stuck. Because I was born in 1973 and have often wondered what was that music that came after the rockin’ ’70s and before the MTV-Michael Jackon ’80s …it was Yacht Rock. This documentary goes really, really deep into this phenomenon and this Genre and everyone who told me, “you’ve got to watch that, Don!!!” … they were right. I loved it. I loved learning exactly what “yacht rock” is and isn’t and I respect anyone who has the passion for something cheezy and awesome and hilarious all at the same time.

Attention to my feet: Kinda random, but Ronnie Chang on The Daily Show made a random, throw away joke that went something like, “…just like I learned recently that white people don’t actually wash their feet. I guess they just let the water run off their body and they stand in the water and I guess it’s good enough.” It got a laugh but I thought, “hey … wait. I don’t wash my feet. So, this is a little odd, but I’m making a concerted effort to wash my feet. Got myself a bar of white Dial soap (anti bacterial) and at the end of my shower I’m taking an extra 30-seconds to wash my feet with soap and water, getting the nails and in between the toes. Maybe everyone reading this Blog is thinking I’m disgusting because you all have always taken the time to really wash your feet and toes. Well, I haven’t. I’m into day-3 and my feet feel very different.

There you go. Another week of “firsts” and “finds” and “fresh new stuff.”

The Top-10 Songs of All (My) Time, #3: “I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston

You learned when I revealed my #4 song that I love a love song. Now you’re going to learn I love vocals. Like watching someone win gold in the 200-meter dash at the Olympics or watching Michael Jordan play in the ’80s and win dunk contests … the reason we all line up, pay money, and pack into arenas is because we marvel at people who can do things we could never, ever do. 

Whitney Houston’s voice, in my opinion, is top-3 of all time. Maybe top-2. Definitely top-5. Wherever you rank her among all-timers, for me, this was the 2nd-greatest vocal performance ever. Whitney’s own performance of the national anthem at the Super Bowl in 1991 is probably #3. And while we’re listing things, I’m gonna put it out there … Mariah Carey on SNL in 1990 singing “Vision of Love” … before she was THE Mariah Carey … is hands down the most ridiculous LIVE vocal acrobatic performance you’ll never see and hear. Watch it here and even tho this Blog entry is about “I Will Always Love You”, I’ve put Mariah on SNL performance at the end. Read More

Friday of Firsts: Sleep Mask, New Jeans, and Ice Spheres

Ya know how lots of Bloggers and Podcasters main-it-in on Fridays or put out a newsletter on Fridays with all their “best of” stuff from the week? I’m gonna do that. You’re reading the first installment of “Friday Firsts” where I’ll quickly give some highlights from the week-that-was of things I did for the first time. Things I experience for the first time. Or whatever … you’ll see.

Sleep Mask:  Sleep experts say total darkness makes your sleep most restful. But our homes have so many little lights … nightstand alarm clock. Night lights. Lights from outside (my house and neighbors houses). I go to bed at a different time than my wife, so her nightstand light is on and then she comes up and reads. Got myself a cheap sleep mask and noticed IMMEDIATELY. Now I might start obsessing over sleep masks.

The Perfect Jean:  My stylish friend sent me a link for a referral-first-time-buyer discount and said, “best jeans I’ve ever owned.”  I think all clothing and all new, cool, life-changing brands are just the same clothes over and over … I gave them a shot. To my other point … do we REALLY believe the guys behind Muggsy Jeans, Read More

The Top-10 Songs of All (My) Time, #4: “True Colors” by Cindy Lauper

As I get into my #4 song, you’re going to realize I love a love song. I love sappy songs (but not too sappy). I like touching lyrics. Not many guys will admit stuff like this, but when the windows are rolled up in my car and a good ballad comes on the radio …oh, baby …I’m singin’ at the top of my lungs.

Cindy Lauper’s “True Colors” came out in 1986 and reached #1 on the Pop Charts in October of 1986.  I was 13. I was in 8th Grade. My brother was in 5th Grade. My sister was in 4th Grade. They were still being forced to take piano lessons. I had been granted the right to quit piano. It broke my parents’ heart that I hated piano lessons and took lessons only for as long as they were forcing me. They said, multiple times, “I wish I had taken piano lessons when I was your age and I wish I could play the piano, now,” and, “you’re going to regret quitting.”

They were right. I deeply regret quitting. I wish I could play. But here’s the thing … I still have time to learn and maybe I will. Maybe I’ll learn to play “True Colors.” Read More