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People who knew my Mom would not have considered her “opinionated”, but instead I think she was “resolute.”
Been typing away at this Blog entry for a little over a month. Her birthday was January 23rd. She would’ve been 78 years old. This October, she will have been gone for 20 years.
Opinionated means someone feels very strongly about their position on a topic, but that position is not absolute and can be argued.
Mary Lou was resolute. Resolute means she was unwavering. Read More
Lent. Better than the New Year for making new habits and breaking bad habits. It’s spiritual and timed perfectly that made New Year’s Resolutions and, um, kinda tripped.
My Lenten Promises will be simple…
I work in advertising and enjoy the process of writing, creating, and producing ads. Mine are primarily audio, but I’ve been part of creating, shooting, or watching video ads get made.
So I wonder …how did this ad get made?
Seems charming enough. A young mother rocking her baby to sleep, or trying to keep her baby asleep. We’ve all been there. Long gone are the days of singing songs like “Rock-a-Bye Baby” or “Lullaby and Good Night.” I get that. I used to sing my kids to sleep every night and my go-to song was Weezer’s “Buddy Holly” because it’s one of the few songs where I know every word and it has a sort of nice message … two nerds singing, “I know I’m yours …I know you’re mine …and that’s for all time.” It always felt like it had some good lyrics even for a kid at bedtime. I love you for all time. Read More
I’ve made it to Day-15 of my #ResolutionADay. This idea is where, each day, I add a New Year’s Resolution to my year. These things are all not life-altering, but are a collection of small things that will add up to a great year.
I’m also not promising myself 100% compliance, but I am tracking my percentage success rate. Because I like math and I think I can make a Spreadsheet full of formulas that can easily track everything and my success rate.
And because perfection is the enemy of the good. Read More
Jerry Seinfeld brilliantly pointed out that sports fans root for clothes.
Tonight, the Lions host a playoff game. It’s maybe the third or fourth playoff game in my 50 years on Earth. The most talked about storyline is this – the Lions are facing Matthew Stafford, who played for 12 seasons in Detroit. He was well-liked by fans and former teammates. Matthew Stafford is a good person. He signed autographs. He never let any salary negotiations or trade-demands to leak. There wasn’t any controversy or scandal around Matthew Stafford. He married his college sweetheart. As far as I can tell, she’s really nice, too. Read More
I used to tell people if I was stranded on a desert island, all I would need to be happy was sufficient food and water… and Twitter. I argued that, with Twitter, I would hardly feel alone or deserted. Good ol’ Twitter was like texting thousands of friends, knowing all the breaking news before the mainstream media could even report it. It was just-enough video and photos to see what was happening and feel like I was there.
Twitter was interactive. People @’d me and I @’d them. We put a . in front of Tweets (can’t remember exactly why). ‘Notficiations’ alerted me when someone commented on my Tweets or a Tweet I had commented on, and I treated ‘Messages’ like text messages or Emails and when I messaged people, they messaged me back. Read More
I’m not sure if this is cool or useless. I’m able to “Reblog” an old Blog post. Which is what you see linked below. Sometimes I think life is about a series of experiments. Now I’ll spend the next half-hour Google’ing and watching videos on YouTube about “why Reblog something.”
ReBlogged below is my opening statement from 2020 and my New Year’s Resolutions. It explains the “why” behind my annual quest to improve my life in big ways …and document it. The problem with Blogs is that you’ve got a public record of your failures, missteps, and lies. But, you also have evidence that you tried.
My Blog is evidence that I want big things for myself. I want perfection. I want to be better.
It reminds me it’s not silly to have hopes and dreams. At what age and at what point in life should you and I stop dreaming and planning and making goals? Read More
I tried it in 2019, 2020, and 2021. I’m convinced #ResolutionADay can be done.
It’s a little bit the Kaizen Method, which is “small improvements every day”. And a little bit borrowed from Achieve Anything in Just One Year. It’s bodacious. It’s daring. It’s the basis of my future book. But I have to do it. I think I said in a Blog entry once that, “it’s easy” and that the resolutions can be creative and don’t always have to be a daily chore or task. Here was my big explanation from 2021.
Originating in Japan, the Kaizen Method focuses on achieving continuous improvement through small, ongoing changes. It embodies the idea that any aspect of life, personal or professional, can be steadily enhanced by making incremental, consistent steps forward
Not sure how it is in your house, but for my wife and I …gift giving is a competition. Before and after all gift-giving events (Valentine’s Day, Anniversary, our birthdays, and especially Christmas) we pre-brag and post-brag about “winning Christmas” or “winning our Anniversary.” It’s about who gives the other person the most thoughtful, most inspired, and most “wow” gift.
The problem (from the perspective of my lack of victories) is that Kathy is so much better at gift giving.
Taking a page from the incredible Matthew Dicks, I’ll start chronicling the wins and losses. And 2024 Christmas was definitely another in the loss-column for me. Read More