A Great Book!!!

Sometimes a book comes along that’s worthy of it’s own Blog post. And that book is Someday is Today by Matthew Dicks. Most good books I read just go in my Books I Love section with a little review. I review them for myself and these are my own notes and takeaways.

But not Someday is Today. This book deserves much better.

My main takeaway is that my entire life I’ve run from my quirks, rituals, habits, and systems (even tho I still do many in secret) but Someday is Today made me feel not so alone.  I run a stopwatch on how long it takes me to shower. I know how long my Get-Ready-Quick Routine is (8 minutes from the moment I decide to shower and get dressed and leave the house) versus my Full-Ready-For-the-Day Routine (14 minutes).  I can mow my front yard in 23 minutes (28 with full edging). Read More

Ryan Gossling Knows About Joy

If you didn’t watch The Oscars last night, you missed an all-time Oscar moment – Ryan Gosling’s performance of “I’m Just Ken” from Barbie (embedded below). It was joyous, and you know how I feel about bringing and spreading joy in the world from my Moth StorySLAM where I told about my harrowing hospitalization years ago (watch/listen here if you’re not familiar).

Ryan Gosling, let’s face it, has everything. Handsome. Famous. Wealthy. Funny, but also serious. Ripped abs. And last night we learned, oh, crap, this guy can also sing …and looks good in a pink sequined suit. He made the “goth girl” (Billie Eillish) laugh (look over his left shoulder as he starts singing) as well as the “head cheerleader” (Margot Robbie) …honestly, she’s a great actress, but that laugh was without a doubt a genuine couldn’t-keep-from-laughing type laugh. He had Emma Stone singing along with him. A male dancer kissed him on the cheek, he broke boards with karate chops, and he hit nearly every note while remembering complex choreography (I guess we knew he had that skill from La La Land) and looked like he was having a blast doing it. Read More

Someday I’ll Have a Time Machine

The exciting news about this photo is that someday I’ll have a time machine. But for whatever reason, I’m going to travel back in time and somehow get into my Grandma and Grandpa’s wedding party.

Question …do you say “Grandpa and Grandma” or “Grandma and Grandpa?” Is there a right way to order those words  …like “salt and pepper” or “gin and tonic?”  Even though Billy Joel says “tonic and gin” in “Piano Man”, but I think that’s more so it rhymed with “crowd shuffles in.”  Does anyone say, “Dad and Mom?” No. Nobody says that. It’s always, “Mom and Dad.”

I love old photos. This one sorta amazes me. Yes, I understand genetics and how they work and that it would make sense that I look very similar to someone else in my family. But a spitting image? Read More

Mary Lou Knew the Right Way

People who knew my Mom would not have considered her “opinionated”, but instead I think she was “resolute.”

Been typing away at this Blog entry for a little over a month. Her birthday was January 23rd. She would’ve been 78 years old. This October, she will have been gone for 20 years.

Opinionated means someone feels very strongly about their position on a topic, but that position is not absolute and can be argued.

Mary Lou was resolute. Resolute means she was unwavering. Read More

Lent. Better than the New Year for making new habits and breaking bad habits. It’s spiritual and timed perfectly that made New Year’s Resolutions and, um, kinda tripped.

My Lenten Promises will be simple…

  • Lose 15 Pounds
  • Fully Fast on Fridays
  • Exercise Daily
  • Write Something Daily
  • Say the Rosary Daily
  • Go to Confession

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How Did This (Ad) Get Made?

I work in advertising and enjoy the process of writing, creating, and producing ads. Mine are primarily audio, but I’ve been part of creating, shooting, or watching video ads get made.

So I wonder …how did this ad get made? 

Seems charming enough. A young mother rocking her baby to sleep, or trying to keep her baby asleep. We’ve all been there. Long gone are the days of singing songs like “Rock-a-Bye Baby” or “Lullaby and Good Night.” I get that. I used to sing my kids to sleep every night and my go-to song was Weezer’s “Buddy Holly” because it’s one of the few songs where I know every word and it has a sort of nice message … two nerds singing, “I know I’m yours …I know you’re mine …and that’s for all time.” It always felt like it had some good lyrics even for a kid at bedtime. I love you for all time. Read More

I Love AI

Everyone is scared of AI. Not me. And even if AI eventually becomes sentient and takes over the world and enslaves humans, let me be the first to say hello to my new robot-computer overlords.

My latest, “wow, AI is amazing,” came today because Bard (Google’s AI-Chat-thingy) just announced it can create pictures. I was working on something and thought my presentation would “pop” a little with a picture of the state of Michigan but with icicles and snow. Not life or death and I was prepared to tell my story and create a picture in the minds of my audience, but as long as I was working so hard on the Power Point, why not add a little pizazz.

So I typed into Bard the following…

Create and image of the state of Michigan and make it look like the state is a cartoon character and very cold with icicles hanging from some places and snow flakes falling.

And Bard gave me these…

ai winter michigan 2

Pretty amazing, right? Maybe the word I’m looking for is “fascinating.”

I am fascinated by AI. I use it all the time. How? Do you know you can have a conversation with AI? My workplace has a corporate version of Bing Chat (Microsoft’s AI). Recently I asked it the following…

Help me with a research project. First, tell me the top-10 Fittest or Healthiest Cities in the U.S.  Then list out the Top-10 Most Vegetarian, or the top-10 Vegan Friendly Cities in the U.S. And tell me why and how you came up with this list. Then, compare the two lists and tell me which cities appear on both lists.

In less than a minute, it had a full report with sources and rationale. So I asked Bing Chat the next question…

Now, create a map of the U.S. and label the cities that appear on both lists and label them with a biking or running icon and a head or broccoli.

It made a perfect visual for the presentation I was making.

I’ve asked AI to create an image of a “cartoon turkey being dropped from a airplane”, and “do a SWOT analysis of the top-5 energy drinks and suggest 3 ways an emerging energy drink could be a disruptor”, and then I asked it a series of questions analyzing the starting salaries of nurses v. teachers (by grade level) v. fire fighters v. police officers v. non-profit directors.

I asked AI to give me a 1-week weight lifting plan designed for a 50-year-old man who hasn’t lifted weights in about 5 years.

AI nailed each project. AI gave me things to think about. AI didn’t always get things perfect the first time, but in a conversational way, AI and I figured stuff out.

I’m opposed to AI writing term papers and cover letters. Yet I’m not opposed to using AI in the good, positive ways. Or just for fun.

Bard Prompt-1:  Show me all Jim Carrey movies in the order they were released

Follow-Up Prompt:  Now show me that list without pictures and put that list into a Google Sheet if you can.

See below. Wow, right?

When the microwave was invented, did traditionalists say, “hell no, I’ll reheat things like I always have.”  When the mobile phone was invented, did grumpy-old-men say, “I’ll keep my wall phone and corded phone at the office, thank you very much?”

Sometimes the “new” is beautiful and wonderful. I’m as old-fashioned as anyone (in some ways), but the AI lesson is this …keep an open mind. Never stop learning. Maybe you won’t figure out how to use it to release a new John Lennon song, but AI can do something for you. The microwave. The mobile phone. Wifi. You can point to ways they hurt society, but I can point to many more ways it’s improved things.

Ask yourself, how can AI help a regular joe. Better yet, ask AI.

Oh, right …here’s that Jim Carrey movie list. Thanks, Bard.

Movie Release Year
Rubberface 1981
Copper Mountain 1983
All in Good Taste 1983
Finders Keepers 1984
Once Bitten 1985
Peggy Sue Got Married 1986
The Dead Pool 1988
Earth Girls Are Easy 1988
Mike Hammer: Murder Takes All 1989
Pink Cadillac 1989
High Strung 1992
Doing Time on Maple Drive 1992
Ace Ventura: Pet Detective 1994
The Mask 1994
Dumb and Dumber 1994
Batman Forever 1995
Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls 1995
The Cable Guy 1996
Liar Liar 1997
The Truman Show 1998
Simon Birch 1998
Man on the Moon 1999
Me, Myself & Irene 2000
How the Grinch Stole Christmas 2000
Majestic 2001
Sonny 2002
Bruce Almighty 2003
Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events 2004
Fun with Dick and Jane 2005
The Number 23 2007
Yes Man 2008
A Christmas Carol 2009
Mr. Popper’s Penguins 2011

#ResolutionADay 2024 – Day 15

I’ve made it to Day-15 of my #ResolutionADay. This idea is where, each day, I add a New Year’s Resolution to my year. These things are all not life-altering, but are a collection of small things that will add up to a great year.

I’m also not promising myself 100% compliance, but I am tracking my percentage success rate. Because I like math and I think I can make a Spreadsheet full of formulas that can easily track everything and my success rate.

And because perfection is the enemy of the good. Read More

I Like the Lions and Matthew Stafford

Jerry Seinfeld brilliantly pointed out that sports fans root for clothes.

Tonight, the Lions host a playoff game. It’s maybe the third or fourth playoff game in my 50 years on Earth. The most talked about storyline is this –  the Lions are facing Matthew Stafford, who played for 12 seasons in Detroit. He was well-liked by fans and former teammates. Matthew Stafford is a good person. He signed autographs. He never let any salary negotiations or trade-demands to leak. There wasn’t any controversy or scandal around Matthew Stafford. He married his college sweetheart. As far as I can tell, she’s really nice, too. Read More

I Miss Twitter and Now I’m All About Reddit

I used to tell people if I was stranded on a desert island, all I would need to be happy was sufficient food and water… and Twitter. I argued that, with Twitter, I would hardly feel alone or deserted. Good ol’ Twitter was like texting thousands of friends, knowing all the breaking news before the mainstream media could even report it. It was just-enough video and photos to see what was happening and feel like I was there.

Twitter was interactive. People @’d me and I @’d them. We put a . in front of Tweets (can’t remember exactly why). ‘Notficiations’ alerted me when someone commented on my Tweets or a Tweet I had commented on, and I treated ‘Messages’ like text messages or Emails and when I messaged people, they messaged me back. Read More