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Social media and the Internet has produced, what I call, “Guru World.” Everyone’s an expert. Everyone has it figured out. Everyone is perfect, disciplined, has routines, and has 100% success rates.
No they don’t. And I certainly don’t. And that’s OK.
What is better? Running 3-miles a day, eating only lean healthy food, meditating daily, and never putting white sugar in your mouth and telling everyone you’ve lived this lifestyle since 2003? Or, taking a brisk, long walk four times a week, doing some sit-ups and push-ups and planks a couple nights a week when watching TV when you remember and feel motivated, and flossing 3 or 4 times a week? Or never doing any of the above and sitting on the couch every night watching TV? If you believe “Guru World”, it’s all or nothing. Only that 3-mile-a-day runner is doing it right. “Guru World” makes you think walking-sit-up person and do-nothing-couch-potato person are the same.
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This will be unpopular, but I hate this ad. I know what Kia wanted and I know why. Kia, and their ad agency, made my wife cry. That’s what they wanted, right?
I hope you’re happy, Kia! My wife was already dreaming of a Kia (not an electric one) and this pretty much seals the deal, but for me …it makes me not want a Kia.
Why am I so angry at this commercial? Because the story it tells is not the least bit anchored to any common experience, realistic event, or feasible scenario. Not that commercials can’t touch the heart. Lord knows the cry-inducing commercial genre has been around a long time. Read More
Sometimes a book comes along that’s worthy of it’s own Blog post. And that book is Someday is Today by Matthew Dicks. Most good books I read just go in my Books I Love section with a little review. I review them for myself and these are my own notes and takeaways.
But not Someday is Today. This book deserves much better.
My main takeaway is that my entire life I’ve run from my quirks, rituals, habits, and systems (even tho I still do many in secret) but Someday is Today made me feel not so alone. I run a stopwatch on how long it takes me to shower. I know how long my Get-Ready-Quick Routine is (8 minutes from the moment I decide to shower and get dressed and leave the house) versus my Full-Ready-For-the-Day Routine (14 minutes). I can mow my front yard in 23 minutes (28 with full edging). Read More
If you didn’t watch The Oscars last night, you missed an all-time Oscar moment – Ryan Gosling’s performance of “I’m Just Ken” from Barbie (embedded below). It was joyous, and you know how I feel about bringing and spreading joy in the world from my Moth StorySLAM where I told about my harrowing hospitalization years ago (watch/listen here if you’re not familiar).
Ryan Gosling, let’s face it, has everything. Handsome. Famous. Wealthy. Funny, but also serious. Ripped abs. And last night we learned, oh, crap, this guy can also sing …and looks good in a pink sequined suit. He made the “goth girl” (Billie Eillish) laugh (look over his left shoulder as he starts singing) as well as the “head cheerleader” (Margot Robbie) …honestly, she’s a great actress, but that laugh was without a doubt a genuine couldn’t-keep-from-laughing type laugh. He had Emma Stone singing along with him. A male dancer kissed him on the cheek, he broke boards with karate chops, and he hit nearly every note while remembering complex choreography (I guess we knew he had that skill from La La Land) and looked like he was having a blast doing it. Read More
The exciting news about this photo is that someday I’ll have a time machine. But for whatever reason, I’m going to travel back in time and somehow get into my Grandma and Grandpa’s wedding party.
Question …do you say “Grandpa and Grandma” or “Grandma and Grandpa?” Is there a right way to order those words …like “salt and pepper” or “gin and tonic?” Even though Billy Joel says “tonic and gin” in “Piano Man”, but I think that’s more so it rhymed with “crowd shuffles in.” Does anyone say, “Dad and Mom?” No. Nobody says that. It’s always, “Mom and Dad.”
I love old photos. This one sorta amazes me. Yes, I understand genetics and how they work and that it would make sense that I look very similar to someone else in my family. But a spitting image? Read More
People who knew my Mom would not have considered her “opinionated”, but instead I think she was “resolute.”
Been typing away at this Blog entry for a little over a month. Her birthday was January 23rd. She would’ve been 78 years old. This October, she will have been gone for 20 years.
Opinionated means someone feels very strongly about their position on a topic, but that position is not absolute and can be argued.
Mary Lou was resolute. Resolute means she was unwavering. Read More
Lent. Better than the New Year for making new habits and breaking bad habits. It’s spiritual and timed perfectly that made New Year’s Resolutions and, um, kinda tripped.
My Lenten Promises will be simple…
I work in advertising and enjoy the process of writing, creating, and producing ads. Mine are primarily audio, but I’ve been part of creating, shooting, or watching video ads get made.
So I wonder …how did this ad get made?
Seems charming enough. A young mother rocking her baby to sleep, or trying to keep her baby asleep. We’ve all been there. Long gone are the days of singing songs like “Rock-a-Bye Baby” or “Lullaby and Good Night.” I get that. I used to sing my kids to sleep every night and my go-to song was Weezer’s “Buddy Holly” because it’s one of the few songs where I know every word and it has a sort of nice message … two nerds singing, “I know I’m yours …I know you’re mine …and that’s for all time.” It always felt like it had some good lyrics even for a kid at bedtime. I love you for all time. Read More
I’ve made it to Day-15 of my #ResolutionADay. This idea is where, each day, I add a New Year’s Resolution to my year. These things are all not life-altering, but are a collection of small things that will add up to a great year.
I’m also not promising myself 100% compliance, but I am tracking my percentage success rate. Because I like math and I think I can make a Spreadsheet full of formulas that can easily track everything and my success rate.
And because perfection is the enemy of the good. Read More