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Sometimes a book comes along that’s worthy of it’s own Blog post. And that book is Someday is Today by Matthew Dicks. Most good books I read just go in my Books I Love section with a little review. I review them for myself and these are my own notes and takeaways.
But not Someday is Today. This book deserves much better.
My main takeaway is that my entire life I’ve run from my quirks, rituals, habits, and systems (even tho I still do many in secret) but Someday is Today made me feel not so alone. I run a stopwatch on how long it takes me to shower. I know how long my Get-Ready-Quick Routine is (8 minutes from the moment I decide to shower and get dressed and leave the house) versus my Full-Ready-For-the-Day Routine (14 minutes). I can mow my front yard in 23 minutes (28 with full edging). Read More
If you didn’t watch The Oscars last night, you missed an all-time Oscar moment – Ryan Gosling’s performance of “I’m Just Ken” from Barbie (embedded below). It was joyous, and you know how I feel about bringing and spreading joy in the world from my Moth StorySLAM where I told about my harrowing hospitalization years ago (watch/listen here if you’re not familiar).
Ryan Gosling, let’s face it, has everything. Handsome. Famous. Wealthy. Funny, but also serious. Ripped abs. And last night we learned, oh, crap, this guy can also sing …and looks good in a pink sequined suit. He made the “goth girl” (Billie Eillish) laugh (look over his left shoulder as he starts singing) as well as the “head cheerleader” (Margot Robbie) …honestly, she’s a great actress, but that laugh was without a doubt a genuine couldn’t-keep-from-laughing type laugh. He had Emma Stone singing along with him. A male dancer kissed him on the cheek, he broke boards with karate chops, and he hit nearly every note while remembering complex choreography (I guess we knew he had that skill from La La Land) and looked like he was having a blast doing it. Read More
The exciting news about this photo is that someday I’ll have a time machine. But for whatever reason, I’m going to travel back in time and somehow get into my Grandma and Grandpa’s wedding party.
Question …do you say “Grandpa and Grandma” or “Grandma and Grandpa?” Is there a right way to order those words …like “salt and pepper” or “gin and tonic?” Even though Billy Joel says “tonic and gin” in “Piano Man”, but I think that’s more so it rhymed with “crowd shuffles in.” Does anyone say, “Dad and Mom?” No. Nobody says that. It’s always, “Mom and Dad.”
I love old photos. This one sorta amazes me. Yes, I understand genetics and how they work and that it would make sense that I look very similar to someone else in my family. But a spitting image? Read More
People who knew my Mom would not have considered her “opinionated”, but instead I think she was “resolute.”
Been typing away at this Blog entry for a little over a month. Her birthday was January 23rd. She would’ve been 78 years old. This October, she will have been gone for 20 years.
Opinionated means someone feels very strongly about their position on a topic, but that position is not absolute and can be argued.
Mary Lou was resolute. Resolute means she was unwavering. Read More
Lent. Better than the New Year for making new habits and breaking bad habits. It’s spiritual and timed perfectly that made New Year’s Resolutions and, um, kinda tripped.
My Lenten Promises will be simple…
I work in advertising and enjoy the process of writing, creating, and producing ads. Mine are primarily audio, but I’ve been part of creating, shooting, or watching video ads get made.
So I wonder …how did this ad get made?
Seems charming enough. A young mother rocking her baby to sleep, or trying to keep her baby asleep. We’ve all been there. Long gone are the days of singing songs like “Rock-a-Bye Baby” or “Lullaby and Good Night.” I get that. I used to sing my kids to sleep every night and my go-to song was Weezer’s “Buddy Holly” because it’s one of the few songs where I know every word and it has a sort of nice message … two nerds singing, “I know I’m yours …I know you’re mine …and that’s for all time.” It always felt like it had some good lyrics even for a kid at bedtime. I love you for all time. Read More
I’ve made it to Day-15 of my #ResolutionADay. This idea is where, each day, I add a New Year’s Resolution to my year. These things are all not life-altering, but are a collection of small things that will add up to a great year.
I’m also not promising myself 100% compliance, but I am tracking my percentage success rate. Because I like math and I think I can make a Spreadsheet full of formulas that can easily track everything and my success rate.
And because perfection is the enemy of the good. Read More
Jerry Seinfeld brilliantly pointed out that sports fans root for clothes.
Tonight, the Lions host a playoff game. It’s maybe the third or fourth playoff game in my 50 years on Earth. The most talked about storyline is this – the Lions are facing Matthew Stafford, who played for 12 seasons in Detroit. He was well-liked by fans and former teammates. Matthew Stafford is a good person. He signed autographs. He never let any salary negotiations or trade-demands to leak. There wasn’t any controversy or scandal around Matthew Stafford. He married his college sweetheart. As far as I can tell, she’s really nice, too. Read More
I used to tell people if I was stranded on a desert island, all I would need to be happy was sufficient food and water… and Twitter. I argued that, with Twitter, I would hardly feel alone or deserted. Good ol’ Twitter was like texting thousands of friends, knowing all the breaking news before the mainstream media could even report it. It was just-enough video and photos to see what was happening and feel like I was there.
Twitter was interactive. People @’d me and I @’d them. We put a . in front of Tweets (can’t remember exactly why). ‘Notficiations’ alerted me when someone commented on my Tweets or a Tweet I had commented on, and I treated ‘Messages’ like text messages or Emails and when I messaged people, they messaged me back. Read More